We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I
sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly eating and
Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, "Hi there." He
pounded his fat baby hands on the high-chair tray. His eyes were wide
with excitement and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin. He
wriggled and giggled with merriment.
I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a
man with a tattered rag of a coat; dirty, greasy and worn. His
pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of
would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and
His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose
was so varicose it looked like a road map.
We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled.
His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. "Hi there, baby; hi
there, big boy. I see ya, buster," the man said to Erik.
My husband and I exchanged looks, "What do we do?"
Erik continued to laugh and answer, ""Hi, hi there." Everyone
in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The
old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby.
Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room,
"Do ya know patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows
Nobody thought he old man was cute. He was obviously drunk.
My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence; all except
for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring
skid-row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments. We
finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went to
pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot. The old man sat
poised between me and the door.
"Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik,"
I prayed. As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to
side-step him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I
did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby's
Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms
to the man's. Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby
consummated their love relationship.
Erik in an act of total trust, love and submission laid his tiny
head upon the man's ragged shoulder. The man's eyes closed, and
I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of
grime, pain and hard labor - gently, so gently cradled my baby's
bottom and stroked his back. No two beings have ever loved so deeply
for so short a time.
I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his
arms for a moment, and then his eyes opened and set squarely on mine.
He said in a firm commanding voice, "You take care of this baby."
Somehow I managed, "I will," from a throat that contained a stone.
He pried Erik from his chest unwillingly, longingly, as though
he were in pain. I received my baby, and the man said, "God bless
you, ma'am, you've given me my Christmas gift."
I said nothing more than a muttered thanks. With Erik in my arms, I
ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and
holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, "My God, my God,
I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence
of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw
a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes.
I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not, I
felt it was God asking - "Are you willing to share your son for a
moment?" when He shared His for all eternity. The ragged old man,
unwittingly, had reminded me, "To enter the Kingdom of God, we
must become as little children."